First date tips : 5 tips for an ultimate first date

We present an example of a young girl coming to a meeting and she hears a voice from a young man waiting for her and he says to someone on the phone, "No, I haven’t found it yet. After all, I’m looking for the real one! The girl changes her appearance very quickly, she becomes "real" and she makes an excellent impression on the young man. Who knew life would be like this?

So from this little example we conclude that true beauty is our real beauty, we must be real and we must not mask to attract anyone because no one deserves that we mask and hide our reality for him.

Be sure that the Mona Lisa smile doesn't suit us.

In the majority of times men are very distraught with such "failed female tricks", through which women call for mystery, but it's bad ambiguity.

Hollywood smile with all 32 of your teeth won't suit you either.

This is a fact that psychologists have always confirmed for the same reason.

So the only requirement for your smile: it must be honest. You ask, how can you smile at a stranger, and the most important question is how can this smile be honest?

Just think about how honest you are now! You're expected to be glad you came to meet this person and here he is also waiting for you already, means the parties want to meet each other and you're really happy, look isn't that a simple reason to make your smile honesty ?

Now I'll let you know another secret: nothing is worse than a polite smile on the first date.

It sounds strange but it's a fact, think through yourself a little bit, what can you say that polite smile to the person you meet?

That's the right explanation: "Well, it's very good, of course, that you came, but I'm very polite, and that's why I smile so politely. I'm sure you actually love me, because I'm so polite.

Will you be sure now how worrying and inappropriate it is?

Smile honestly and act as you are without making  you fake one or confusing, that's my advice to you.

Don't take things seriously. Experience shows that a person who is very obsessed with the result, the chances of achieving it are greatly diminished. It is something we cannot explain, but unfortunately it is a fact.

It's true that the first meeting with a stranger is probably going to be nervous, which is normal and common, but don't make it excessive. He's ruining the meeting.

You should know that your task in the first meeting is to present yourself well and appropriately so that the other person wants to see you again. Or even more than once!

Another thing is also not to focus on just showing your best sides. You should talk about all aspects of your life including showing some of your negatives in a fun way. This will allow you to see your potential partner's different feedback and see if he can deal with small differences between you in the future.

Surprisingly, men also react positively to such an opening. They also have secrets they want to hide, and are afraid to spoil the first impression.

When they see that you allow yourself not to be perfect, they calm themselves down a little bit. We remember that the most important thing is to create an atmosphere of trust and mutual comfort. 

You can ask about what is really important or interesting to you, where psychologists spoke on this topic and concluded that people generally like to talk about themselves. It is wrong to neglect this important point during the first meeting! Seeing your real interest in him, the man rejoices and becomes quieter.

In the same vein, as a man talks to you, it's good to look him in the eye for a while, and this way contributes to conveying all your feelings about him without uttering a word. Your appearance can be tempting, amazing, mysterious or interesting! But the most important thing, it must be open and friendly.

Personally, I think the last option would be enough.

Also, at the first meeting, the questions you will ask will pave the way for your future relationship with your potential partner. Don't be afraid to discuss everything in your mind and everything you need to know about it, ask him everything he expects and what he doesn't.

I ask him to talk about yourself again and here, you shouldn't talk about what you expect from the person himself or from relationships in general, nor should you set the conditions and impose your wishes for the success of the future relationship between you: "You must be (less than a list of 48 points), then I will marry you!" It's a big mistake! You should talk about what attracts you to continue the relationship with him. If you find it difficult to talk to a potential partner, make it clear. Your comfort is most important, let it be a clear picture in your mind and draw your goals and aspirations for a potential relationship. By the way, this method will help you a lot to keep the dialogue between you in the right direction.

It's the most important rule you have to have but it must become intuitive for you. You have to love yourself the first thing and provide sufficient self-esteem and self-confidence as these things are the basis for your future success and all the course of your life. And here's not just talking about the first date with a prospective lover. These qualities form the inner essence of a person who is stable and successful in life. They are the basis of your appeal and beauty. If you are the happy owner of this beautiful combination, feel free to schedule your first meeting. I assure you it will be a successful and fun meeting.