6 Dangerous Signs That You Are In A toxic Relationship
Once you realize that you are in an toxic relationship, it is really hard to get out of it. Either you don't have the courage, or you fear for your life.
In a way, I give my heart to all the women who find it hard to leave their abusers.
Many of us can say, “It's not that hard. It makes sense that he abused you physically and emotionally, so walk away.” Simply. But in fact, it is much more complicated for you.
Those who have never been in an toxic relationship will never understand how hard it can be to get out.
Most women are not aware that they are being emotionally abused. They have been in this type of relationship for so long that they have forgotten that there is another way to live, a better way!
They have forgotten that they deserve to be treated with respect, that they deserve to be treated as human beings.
It's one thing to talk about getting out of such a relationship, but it's quite another to actually do it.
If you are secretly suffering and struggling with the pain a relationship costs, remember that you are not alone. You are not so weak. And you're not the only one who can't break free. It's hard, and I know and understand.
Forget all the anxiety he puts on you and find the strength to let go of him because you can!
1. Extreme jealousy
Beware of his strange behavior, during which you feel that he is jealous of you, as his jealousy comes from insecurity. If he's happy with himself, he won't be jealous of anything you do.
He's jealous of your friends and, more importantly, jealous of you, your dreams, and your accomplishments because he never had any.
He's jealous of you because you're better than him, the guy who makes you feel worthless. It is the addict's most powerful weapon.
2. Arguments develop quickly
Arguing is part of a normal relationship, but in an toxic relationship like this, he's always making arguments and asking you for justification over the simplest things. They tend to create problems out of nowhere.
They come out of the blue into the red, from a simple disagreement to a complex discussion and they always revolve around something that makes absolutely no sense, ending up with them being right and you being the wrong party. And most importantly, this repeats endlessly.
Be aware, there is no warning when a normal conversation turns into a heated argument that could lead to physical violence.
3. You feel uncomfortable around him
You are in constant fear of saying or doing something controversial. You tiptoe around him just to make sure you don't disturb him.
Relationships and love don't have to be like this. What is happening now is not love or a right relationship. It is essential to feel safe with your partner, not to be afraid.
4. He always criticizes you
Whatever you say, it's not good enough.
Even if you try to please him because you're afraid he'll hurt you or because you think he'll change, it's not good enough for him.
He will always find your mistakes. Not because you're wrong, but because he wants to have a good reason to make his actions "justified."
5. You try to make him happy
You always try to make him happy no matter what. You pretend you're okay when you're not, just to keep him from getting angry.
You laugh at his jokes that you didn't think were funny at all, just to make him happy, for fear he might get angry.
You always strive to try to convince him even if you are not convinced, so that the matter does not turn into a sharp disagreement.
You are in a situation where you have to beg for your happiness, and you have to keep quiet about it when you are angry or upset with someone.
6. You can't get out of the relationship and quit
You feel like you are in a prison and the only person who has the key to freedom is your partner. It is the one who controls every aspect of your life so that you do not move on and leave.
If you feel trapped, find the courage and go!
Because of the emotional hell you're going through, you start to think that you're the problem.
You start to believe that you deserve no better than that. do not be stupid! He made you believe it.
Nobody deserves to be in a toxic relationship.
You are beautiful and you deserve someone who loves and respects you.
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